Dr Ng Wai Sheng

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Releasing Love

Releasing Love

Releasing love is not the same as romantic love. Releasing love is about FREEDOM. When you free someone, you free yourself as well. In contrast, romantic love is often about POSSESSION. When you possess (or think you possess) someone, you are possessed as well.

Transformative Change

Transformative Change

What do you want? What are you looking for? Setting our heart’s intention right is half the problem solved. Transformative change requires that we spend time listening, and getting to know our hearts, so that we can get in touch with what’s truly important for our core being.

I Gave You Back Your Daughter

I Gave You Back Your Daughter

As a therapist, sometimes I have monologues inside my head. This monologue emerged after a session with a mother and daughter. We are all somebody’s daughter or son. We cannot change our past or history. But we can create our own future, if we become more CONSCIOUS about how we are living our present.

Loving Amiss: The Confusion of Anger

Loving Amiss: The Confusion of Anger

Anger is normal. We feel angry when we feel wronged or harmed by others, or witness others being harmed or unjustly treated. Anger typically triggers fear and helplessness, in those who experience it and to those who witness it. Hence, people turn on fight or flight mode, to defend against anger, until they can no longer hold back and it explodes! Whilst anger can really hurt, it is often a secondary emotion. What underlies anger is usually fear. And the true antidote for fear is love.

Holding Tension With Care

Holding Tension With Care

After watching the newly released documentary “M for Malaysia”, the writer reflects on her experience of her country’s development in the last 16 months, since General Election 2018. Even as the new government is still learning to work together, the leadership of this country has shown what’s possible in a seemingly impossible situation… that is, to hold tension with care.