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This is a story about how Growing Space began…

What you believe is what’s going to define how you feel and how you act.
And the outcome of your interaction with your living environment will become self-fulfilling prophesy for what you believe consciously, and more so unconsciously.

What/who in the world right now you’re trying to put under control or at least get some cooperation with, but they just won’t let you? Is it your child? Your spouse or a family member? Is it Covid-19? The current lockdown? Your business or finances? In the midst of my…

Releasing love is not the same as romantic love. Releasing love is about FREEDOM. When you free someone, you free yourself as well. In contrast, romantic love is often about POSSESSION. When you possess (or think you possess) someone, you are possessed as well.

All good, healthy relationships start from BEING a good, healthy person, first to ourselves. And then, our love can naturally flow out to others. How do we then become more conscious about the precious Self, hidden deep within each of us?

What do you want? What are you looking for? Setting our heart’s intention right is half the problem solved. Transformative change requires that we spend time listening, and getting to know our hearts, so that we can get in touch with what’s truly important for our core being.

How we respond to a situation usually depends on our perception of the situation and the state of our relationship with the people involved. So, at every given moment, there are usually 3 CONTEXTS that are interplaying: my context, the other person’s context and our shared context.

As a therapist, sometimes I have monologues inside my head. This monologue emerged after a session with a mother and daughter. We are all somebody’s daughter or son. We cannot change our past or history. But we can create our own future, if we become more CONSCIOUS about how we are living our present.